Why i get hurt?? or Why we often hurt others??

The World we live is something very mystery....

The more good u do to others, the more problems will reach out to u...

The more you give others, the more u expect and the more u disappoint...

Once you bound to a relationship with full heart, either u hurt them or they will hurt you...

We hurt because life is tough. The journey of life filled with with so many ecstasies, including the good, the bad, the painful and the not so pleasant.

You cannot expect life to be fine all the time...

Because, you will never feel the pleasure of life untill you know the other side i.e Pain!!

One of the the major sources of our pain and hurt is selfishness. It is our way or no way!

Everything else has to come to our satisfaction to make us happy.

Is this possible all the time? How selfish?

Thats why we hurt others and we get hurt since they dint satisfy you...

In every relationship there will be occasional misunderstandings and hurt feelings.

Many Relationships breaks because of the Fact or the act: Selfishness!!!

Even though you love them, just give a space between each of u, to enjoy a beautiful life!!

Always Remember when u hold a butterfly lightly, you can enjoy its beautiful color;

If u hold it tightly, it dies;

In Every bad situation, you always have two options:

1. hurt them, apologize immediately,understand them and make it as a treasure page in your book of life.

Once apologized and accepted, never go back and revisit the old battles the next time you have a disaggrement.

2. hurt them, hurt yourself, bring in the ego and you can just watch the relationship breaks.

As far as i concerned,

When u hurt, make sure u do ur apology as soon as possible, console them, convince them and never wait for them to cool on their own.

When some one hurts u, find out why they did it, and stay calm when they explain things.

Hurt is a tool to shape up your life,

It decides who you care most and

Who cares you the most!!

It can either break up a relationship or

Build a Trusted and Reasonable Life!!

So the next time, when some one hurts you, Remember the above lines.

Pull out the good things in every bad situation and Enjoy the fruitness in your life!!!

Don make your own hell in these mysterious world!!!

-----Stay Happy!! Live Happily!!------

The Dream Chaser!!